Sunday, December 31, 2006

Feast of The Holy Family

Jesus, Mary and Joseph, like you we are members of the Father's family. We pray that our family love may reflect his love on its openness to all people. May we forgive even when not forgiven, and be patient with others' weaknesses.

Jesus, give us peace, unit and strength to meet the difficulties of daily living. May we use our family resources to improve the quality of life for ourselves and all people. Let us show joy in serving, for whatever we do for others, we do for you.

Mary, inspire us, that our love may be strong but not possessive. Let our willingness to give depend on the needs of others rather than on the cost of giving.

Joseph, help us to be attentive to the Father's will. Let us be ready, as you were, to act whenever he calls us.

Saturday, December 30, 2006

How Do You Know It's Love?

This is a question that I have found myself pondering alot in the last three years. What exactly is love? How do you know when you've found it? Is there a correct way to love? Everyday I am closer and closer to realizing all of these answers. Although I don't know them in full, I am well on my way.

What is love? When you are finding yourself wanting to give everything you can to a person and not expecting anything in return, that must be love. I cannot seem to find any other explaination for wanting to give in such a trusting way. This is a mutual giving that never ceases from either person, which truly amazes me. In terms of an ideal love, I always look to Mary and Joseph. Joseph gave so much to Mary knowing that she was not carrying his son. That trust was incredible, yet on top of that, he took care of her and accepted her as his wife.
In the last three years, Nathan and I have been through so much together. We have had happy times, hard times, and everything in between. After spending some time apart to discover who we were individually, we began to learn how to bring our individual selves into a relationship. Looking back at the transformation, I am in awe. I have never wanted to give so much to something before; to someone so important to me. He helps me realize that giving selflessly is truly the answer. No matter what may come our way, we know that as long as we keep God in the center of our relationship, we will continue to experience what love truly is.

Sunday, December 24, 2006

Merry Christmas!

May God bless you and your family during this joyous day of our Lord's birth.

Friday, December 22, 2006

Thankful for Good Health

I have always found it to be sad that I am not thankful for good health until I am sick. I came down with a cold a couple of days ago and was devastated knowing that the 5th and final All Student Theatre Project Christmas concert was going to be today. I did everything I could to take care of myself, but as usual, it just takes time. Sometimes I wonder why I get sick when I do, especially at the most inconvenient of times, but then I realize how humbling of an experience it can be. I did not want to back out of the concert knowing that it was the last one, so I offered up my sickness and decided to see what I could do. Thankfully it went fairly well, although not nearly at my best, but I realized that being amazing is not everything. It was really just about sharing the music and enjoying Christmas. I do not have a voice now as I can barely speak, but I'm thankful that I was asked to offer up my sufferings so that I could see everything from a different perspective.
So here's to good health and all of those days during the year that we are not continuously thankful for being healthy. Perhaps being sick is a way for us to refocus on how lucky we are that God grants us good health.

Friday, December 15, 2006

Children Understand

"Mommy, I'm happy" was the first comment I heard from a boy near me in the mall while I was Christmas shopping. I thought it was cute, but at first his mother dismissed the comment. He continued to say how happy he was and his mother asked him why. With this, he responded, "Everyone around here is happy, so that makes me very happy!"
I found it amazing that through the busyness of the shoppers running through the mall, he could still sense the holiday cheer. It is the children who can teach us to take a step back and admire the beauty that is constantly around us.

Tuesday, December 12, 2006

Our Lady of Guadalupe

On December 9, 1531, the Blessed Mother appeared to Juan Diego and told him to have a temple built where she stood. He went to the bishop to relay the message, but was told to bring back a sign. On December 12, Mary told him to go to the rocks and collect the roses, although they didn't grow there and it was not the season for them. He collected them, placing them in his tilma where the Blessed Mother rearranged them. He brought them to the bishop, untouched and when revealing them, a picture of Our Lady appeared.

Our Lady of Guadalupe, ora pro nobis.

Sunday, December 10, 2006

Almost Done!

As Monday approaches, I realize that this is the final week of classes. This semester has been long and although it is not quite over, I know that it soon will be. I have papers to finish, conducting to do, observations to write, and a variety of other assignments, yet I'm looking at the positive side. With each paper that I write and note that I conduct, I am that much closer to my degree. Since I'll be student teaching during my final semester, I only have two semesters of classes left to complete. It continuously amazes me at how fast time really does fly. Ever since I began bringing God with me to the classroom and welcoming His help on my papers and in my life, everything has been easier and stress free. Without God, this last week of classes would be filled with stress and frustration, instead I can breathe easy knowing that I am doing His work.

Saturday, December 9, 2006

Finding fellowship on campus

Portland Press Herald
By BETH QUIMBY, Staff Writer
Saturday, December 9, 2006

University of Southern Maine junior Danielle Ripa spends her Saturday nights a little bit differently than many young college students.
Instead of attending dorm parties or hitting the books, Ripa attends Mass at St. Anne's Church in Gorham. Then she heads down to the church basement to cook and consume a communal meal with the Newman Club, USM's club for Catholic students. While prayer and dish duty in a church kitchen are probably not high on most college students' Saturday night to-do list, it suits the eight to 10 regulars at the weekly event just fine.
"Being religious is important even when there are other temptations to do other things," said Ripa, of West Newbury, Mass.
While religious groups such as the Newman Club are definitely a minority among student clubs and organizations on Maine's college campuses, many of them are thriving. The Hillel Club for students interested in Judaism at Bowdoin College in Brunswick draws crowds at its bagel and latke brunches. More than 60 people showed up at the panel discussion on what it means to be a Muslim sponsored by the Muslim Club at Colby College in Waterville. College chaplains report that although not everyone wants to be associated with a particular religion on campus, spirituality is blossoming on campuses both in Maine and across the country.
"The research is pretty clear. They are far more spiritual," said Bill Blaine-Wallace at Bates College in Lewiston of today's college students.
Bates is home to nine different clubs with a spiritual orientation, including the Christian Fellowship, Hillel, the Hindu Awareness Group, The Bahai Association, the Christian Science Organization, the Buddhist Dharma Society, the Muslim Mushada Association, the Unitarian Universalists Fellowship and Within Reach, a progressive Christian group that focuses on questions of faith. They were all founded by students and are led by students.
"They are established out of the desire of the students and the energy and passion for continuing oozes from the (student) community," said Blaine-Wallace.
Some students say they join religious clubs to hold on to their identities away from home, while others say they are turned to clubs to explore different spiritual paths.
Adriana Nordin Manan, a Colby senior, said she would never have joined a Muslim club back home in Malaysia. But when Nordin Manan found herself a member of a religious minority at Colby where there are only a handful of Muslim students, she felt a strong urge to educate her classmates about her religion.
"It makes me smile when I think I am the president of Colby Muslim group," she said.
Michael Peiser, a senior, said he would not have considered Bowdoin unless it had a Hillel branch on campus. He grew up in a religious family in Newton, Mass., a Boston suburb with a large Jewish population. He said he wanted to make sure there was an active Jewish community at college. The group has been on campus for five years, has 150 members, with about a third of those showing up at weekly meetings. The group is known for its social events, including dances, Chinese dinners, and sponsorship of campus-wide events, such as last month's Stand Up For Peace, a comedy duo popular on the college circuit.
Some campus chaplains say they try to provide support and encouragement to the student- led spiritual groups by sponsoring interfaith events that highlight the common links among different religious faiths.
This year, USM's Interfaith Chaplain's Office is sponsoring a series on artistic expression and spirituality with programs that include a look at the use of calligraphy in different religious texts, sacred poetry and the role of food in religion.
Bates College is sponsoring a series of speakers who share their life stories to jump-start spiritual discussions about the meaning of life and other topics.
The series regularly draws 30 or so students, which is a crowd on a weeknight at Bates when many students are focused on their studies, said Blaine- Wallace.
"People are starved to be in conversations about matters that are important to them," said Blaine-Wallace.
That is why Paul Condello, 19, of Fryeburg, a sophomore at USM, attends the Thursday night Newman Club meeting.
"It is not uncommon to learn something, and we can discuss matters that are not part of the general curriculum," he said.

Thursday, December 7, 2006

Ephesians 5:21-33

Be subordinate to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives should be subordinate to their husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is head of his wife just as Christ is head of the church, he himself the savior of the body. As the church is subordinate to Christ, so wives should be subordinate to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the church and handed himself over for her to sanctify her, cleansing her by the bath of water with the word, that he might present to himself the church in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. So (also) husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one hates his own flesh but rather nourishes and cherishes it, even as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. "For this reason a man shall leave (his) father and (his) mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." This is a great mystery, but I speak in reference to Christ and the church. In any case, each one of you should love his wife as himself, and the wife should respect her husband.

Tuesday, December 5, 2006

The Nativity Story

Nathan and I went to see the new movie "The Nativity Story" Sunday evening. I've always found that a movie could never portray Jesus in the true beauty that He is, so relatively speaking, this film was pretty good. It was mostly based on Mary's life, beginning when she is married to Joseph and the Annunciation. My favorite part was the beauty of seeing the nativity scene that we all have set up in our houses during Christmas. Just to see the eyes of the shepards and wise men staring in awe at this precious child, was amazing. I'm glad we were able to start off Advent with something that could help us to focus on this beautiful season.

Saturday, December 2, 2006

Christmas Presents

Have you ever walked aimlessly around a store in the hopes of finding a Christmas present for someone? I know this is a common occurance for me and it always seems to be for the same people each year. As I was coming up with a list of gifts for each person this year, I realized something about those that I was unsure of. Perhaps the reason why I do not have a gift idea for them is because I don't spend enough time with them during the rest of the year. It gave me a chance to think about refocusing my energy throughout the year to be more aware of certain people and to work on a closer relationship with them.

Thursday, November 30, 2006

All You Need is a Smile

Each morning after waking up, I always thank God for giving me another day to love and to serve Him. It helps to give me a positive and optimistic attitude, but most importantly to remind myself to keep God in the center of my life. With this in mind, I have an entirely new outlook on life. It's important for us to let God use us as His instruments, no matter what that may entail. Lately, I've found that just reflecting His love upon others is what I have been called to do. Usually it only includes a simple smile. Most of the time I don't think about, it comes naturally.

I was at the mall earlier today trying to get my Christmas shopping done. Everyone knows the chaos that will be encountered there, but you do it anyway. I was walking around in circles, squeezing past people, and attempting to figure out gifts when I saw a janitor walking by. I smiled at him, as I usually do, and for a few seconds his entire attitude changed. He had a smile grow across his face and he turned to finish his work a little happier. God truly uses us in the simplest of ways, but always to show His glory.

Friday, November 24, 2006

Good News About Sex and Marriage

In my spare time and often when I am procrastinating from homework, I read about Catholicism and how to fully bring God into my life. Ever since a Theology of the Body conference that I attended, I have been reading many books about courtship and understanding the human body the way that has God intended. Nathan recently read "Good News About Sex and Marriage" by Christopher West and insisted that I read it. Although I had already heard alot of what I read, it opened my eyes and my heart. I was truly able to understand the marital embrace in its true form and beauty. Although I am not married, I am so glad that I am gaining a foundation in which to help myself and most importantly help my husband get to heaven. I strongly encourage everyone whether you are married, single, discerning the priesthood, religious life, or married life to read this book and anything else by Christopher West or Pope John Paul II.

Thursday, November 23, 2006

Happy Thanksgiving!

Many people associate Thanksgiving with turkey, pies, and the Macy's parade. This year, I decided to spend my day praying to God and thanking Him for everything that He has blessed me with. I realized that the most important things in life are truly the people that God has placed in my life. It doesn't matter if I have a huge feast or whether or not the dessert includes chocolate (although I am quite thankful if it does), but spending time with my family and realizing how I have grown closer to God through those around me is all that really matters.

I hope you all had a blessed Thanksgiving and may God continue to bless you abundantly.

Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Pray for the Addicted

I arrived home last night for Thanksgiving, so my sister and I decided to go out to the mall this afternoon. While wandering the stores searching aimlessly for a Christmas present for our brother, we walked into FYE (a dvd and music store). As I was walking up and down the aisles, I saw a man looking through DVD's, but he almost seemed to be hiding something. I looked closer and realized that he was in the porn section. My first reaction did not include disgust, but instead I felt bad that he had an obvious addiction. I immediately prayed for him, that he will overcome what society has told him is acceptible. Just the way he was flipping through the videos, you could tell that he knew something about it was wrong, yet he couldn't keep himself from doing it. How can a store willingly want to help support such an addiction? It's horrible to watch these men be turned into something that they are not. Our men deserve so much better! They need to be taught at a young age how beautiful the human body is and it needs to be nurtured in a nonsexual way. I pray that these men will overcome the addictions that society has placed upon them and that future generations will learn to embrace the human body the way that God has intended.

Happy Feast of St. Cecilia

St. Cecilia has always been a Saint that I have loved and found a connection with as she is the patroness of music. Her story is quite unique and also extremely inspiring. She had given her life to God but her parents forced her to marry. Upon returning from the wedding with her Pagan husband, she asked him not to take her virginity as an angel was with her. He asked to see the angel, but was told that until he was baptized and became Christian, he could not. He did as he was told and came back fully converted. His love for the Church became so radiant that he started working with his brother to bury those who had been martyred and were later martyred themselves. St. Cecilia was also to be martyred when she was found burying her husband and his brother. She was first placed in her bath and expected to die from the steam. For three days she sat there singing psalms to God, while not being affected. Finally, she was to be beheaded. With three swings of the axe, her head was still intact, but she laid there for three days while suffering from a loss of blood. Her body was later exhumed for examination (during her canonization) and was found to be incorrupt.Today, her body is in St. Cecilia's Church in Rome. Last summer I was so blessed and was able to visit. Although I could not see her tomb (it was not open at the time), the church was absolutely beautiful! Upon walking in, there is a statue under the altar that depicts what St. Cecilia looked like when her body was first exhumed. Being in the same area that a martyr is buried is so prayerful and contemplative, I only wish that I could have stayed longer.


St. Cecilia, ora pro nobis!

Tuesday, November 21, 2006

Patience is a Virtue?

I have been struggling lately with patience. It tends to be extremely hard to be patient for something that you so desperately want, especially knowing that it is not currently part of God's plan. I have tried many ways to overcome this obstacle, yet I have not found the solution or if there even is supposed to be one.

You hear it constantly, "Be patient," but what exactly is meant by this? Is it alright to still hope and dream for that time to come? Or is it best to refocus your energy on something else? Praying for patience has proved to be the most helpful and beneficial, yet I continue to struggle. I have also been trying to offer it all up to the Lord. He knows what is best for me, yet I continuously hope that perhaps there is a short cut along my path.

How do you accept patience into your life and embrace the beauty that God has intended for it?

Monday, November 20, 2006

A Prayer For Couples

Lord, give us the patience that we need in order to do Your will. Grant us the strength to listen to You and what You ask of us. Help us in our relationship, and guide us closer to you, so that no matter what happens, You will always be the center of our lives, and that Your will is always done by us.
Amen.

A New Beginning

I have had a tendency to keep online journals in the past, but I never felt as though I was able to state my thoughts on an intellectual level rather than just listing my events of the day. In this blog, I hope to share my insights and all of the beautiful ways that God brings me towards Him. I pray that you will be able to gain from the knowledge that is bestowed upon me, while at the same time that I may grow even stronger in my faith.

As far as the title of my blog is concerned, my name is Danielle which is hebrew for "God is my Judge." I thank my parents for choosing so wisely when they gave me such a fitting name.
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